At Childhood

In childhood, we like to depend on others. "Maa ke hath se khana", "Papa ke sath bus stop jana", "family ke sath mall me weekend bitana" etc etc.... But gradually time changes everything, the thing we love in childhood, the same old thing start bother us when we become mature. Umr ke sath insan ka nazariya badal ta hai. Bacpan me hum apne parents ki ankho sa dekhte hai. Jo unhe sahi lagta hai wahi humare liye bhi perfect hai .We dont give any opinion. Ya phir hume kuch kehne ki zarurat hi mehsus nahi hoti. What ever be the reason, lekin bacche apne parents ki haan me hi hami bharte hai. After few years, when children start to use their own brain, then only the problem begins. Its not only the problem of today's generation, it happens from generation by genaration. Humare parents ne hume dosh diya, unke parents ne unhe dosh diya tha. This is the Human Nature . Every human being feel that their generation is the best one. Aise soch ki wajah se hi har ghar me generation gap rehta hai . Parents baccho ko nahi samajhte, aur bacche parents ko nahi samajna chahte. Har parents ke liye bacche humesha bacche rehte hai. But children dont understand this. They think parents interfare in  there life. Wahi baccha jo bachpan me parents ke sath gumna pasand karta the, aaj akele ya apne friends ke sath jana chahta hai . Sometimes parents ko samjhna chahiye that waqt badal gaya hai, to its quite natural ki insan bhi badal jayega, chahe wo apka ka baccha hi ku na ho. After all he/she is a human being. Jaha aise conflictions ate hai, wahi problems hoti hai. It depends on man to man ki wo kis chiz ko kaise accept karta hai . Kuch insan ko kisi chizo se koi problem, aur kuch insan ko new generation ke har chiz se problem hai . Sometimes children feel insecure in front of their parents. they dont share anything openly. because they feel their parents dont understand them . Aisa insan sochta hai. Par ye sahi nahi hai. Ager ap kisi ko bhi apne dil ki baat acchi tarah samjha sako, to samne wala apki baat zarur samjhega. Aisa har bacche ko karna chahiye, specially jinke sath ye "insecurity" wali problem hai. har insan jhooth bolkar ye sochta hai ki main bach gaya. but jhoot chupake kuch nahi hota. Try to tell the truth. Thats it......