Monday, 25 April 2011

Nature of Mind


There are various types of mental function and people behave differently in different conditions. The thing which is differ from man to man is there mind, brain, mental activities and behaviour. Brain has a physical structure whereas mind is consider a functional correlate of brain. Behaviour is the verbal and  phsycological responses and action.
Every people behave differently, think differently. Because of their divergent thinking, they act differently. There are some people with a happy mood, some are always in anger . Some are selfish, some are selfless, innocent. So there are vast category of human nature. Insan ka behaviour uske janm ke sath hi banta hai. But in some circumstances people have to change according to the situation. Every human nature varies due to their maturation, literacy, ageing, self intelligence and personality. Insan ka mind jaisa kam karta hai uska attitude bhi waisa hi hota hai.  If the mind is perfect , a person act normally. Every human being think he/she is the perfect one. But the harsh truth is ,no one is perfect. Well though every human being have their own nature but three things common in every one – “sex, anger and greed”. A human being is incomplete without this . Har insan ko gussa ata hai . some are ill tempered, someone can control . there is also a category of people who used to throw things, starts crying ,harm themselves when they are in anger. Anger is a very deep negative emotions. Sometimes you want something, but you never get it, you became angry. No one understand your emotion , you become angry. Actually I negative thinker gets more angry than a positive thinking man. You have a plan in your mind, but from the very beginning you start assuming negative. You become irrited. 
So try to be a positive as much as possible. 

Monday, 18 April 2011

At Childhood

In childhood, we like to depend on others. "Maa ke hath se khana", "Papa ke sath bus stop jana", "family ke sath mall me weekend bitana" etc etc.... But gradually time changes everything, the thing we love in childhood, the same old thing start bother us when we become mature. Umr ke sath insan ka nazariya badal ta hai. Bacpan me hum apne parents ki ankho sa dekhte hai. Jo unhe sahi lagta hai wahi humare liye bhi perfect hai .We dont give any opinion. Ya phir hume kuch kehne ki zarurat hi mehsus nahi hoti. What ever be the reason, lekin bacche apne parents ki haan me hi hami bharte hai. After few years, when children start to use their own brain, then only the problem begins. Its not only the problem of today's generation, it happens from generation by genaration. Humare parents ne hume dosh diya, unke parents ne unhe dosh diya tha. This is the Human Nature . Every human being feel that their generation is the best one. Aise soch ki wajah se hi har ghar me generation gap rehta hai . Parents baccho ko nahi samajhte, aur bacche parents ko nahi samajna chahte. Har parents ke liye bacche humesha bacche rehte hai. But children dont understand this. They think parents interfare in  there life. Wahi baccha jo bachpan me parents ke sath gumna pasand karta the, aaj akele ya apne friends ke sath jana chahta hai . Sometimes parents ko samjhna chahiye that waqt badal gaya hai, to its quite natural ki insan bhi badal jayega, chahe wo apka ka baccha hi ku na ho. After all he/she is a human being. Jaha aise conflictions ate hai, wahi problems hoti hai. It depends on man to man ki wo kis chiz ko kaise accept karta hai . Kuch insan ko kisi chizo se koi problem, aur kuch insan ko new generation ke har chiz se problem hai . Sometimes children feel insecure in front of their parents. they dont share anything openly. because they feel their parents dont understand them . Aisa insan sochta hai. Par ye sahi nahi hai. Ager ap kisi ko bhi apne dil ki baat acchi tarah samjha sako, to samne wala apki baat zarur samjhega. Aisa har bacche ko karna chahiye, specially jinke sath ye "insecurity" wali problem hai. har insan jhooth bolkar ye sochta hai ki main bach gaya. but jhoot chupake kuch nahi hota. Try to tell the truth. Thats it......